As adults, we are working so hard to get our dream life. We can get so caught up in the day to day minutia that sometimes we forget to step back and ask ourselves, “what is an easier way to get there?”

When we ask ourselves this kind of a question, we get the opportunity to find solutions that we may not have seen otherwise that could make our lives easier and help us get to what we want faster. 

Recently I was having a conversation with my son about his dreams and as we were talking about them it gave me an analogy that I thought was brilliant to pass on to you (kids tend to do that sometimes!)

My son has a strong desire to be a Major League Baseball player. Okay, I will admit he is 13 years old and his dream could easily change but for now I am supporting it.  He knows what he wants but he needs help getting there.  He can’t just wake up one day and be a professional athlete. He has to train, practice and be instructed on how to play the game.  The coach looks at where he needs improvement and helps him work on that area to enhance his skills. 

Batting is something that he has struggled with, he gets frustrated as he either strikes out or pops up the ball for an easy out.  He knows there is something wrong with his swing but he can’t see for himself what he is doing. This is where his coach comes in, he watches his swing from a different perspective to give him advice and correct his technique.  He can see what my son can’t. 

As a Master Empowerment Coach, I do the same thing as my son’s baseball coach.  Most people I speak to know what they want, they just don’t know how to do it - or they don’t know what it is they are doing wrong that is slowing them down. 

Often times, it takes just a few course corrective steps, then the consistent practice of those steps and what you want can easily come to you.  

When you ask yourself that important question, ‘what can I do to make this easier?’, often times a coach, like me, who can see the whole picture, can discover something that on your own, would be harder to spot. Just like my son’s blindspots when he is batting.

A client of mine recently sent me this beautiful testimonial from just one session together...

My session with Denise was so very helpful, and continues to benefit my life.  With no judgment and with laser clarity, Denise listened to me and gave me some powerful food for thought that I'm still digesting!   As I listened to her speak into what I shared,I realized that she was exposing a HUGE blind spot for me.  

For the first time ever, it hit me that the false self was literally posing spiritually in my mind! Wow!  And I just thought I was being "responsible" by questioning everything, and thus doubting, second guessing, and dipping in and out of confusion.   This was totally hidden from my awareness, up until my call with Denise!     

She gave me a very simple andsupportive practice to assist me in acknowledging the false self, while alsochoosing my Authentic Self.    Since my call with Denise, I am ableto catch the false self-thoughts and subsequent emotions.  Using thepractice shifts me quickly back to peace.  I feel both grateful andinspired as I move forward.

There is an ease, grace, and wisdomthat flows through Denise, creating a safe space for awareness and healing.  She's Divinely guided and has a true heart for serving others.  She definitely helped me distinguish and trust in my own inner guidance more.  Thank you Denise!   
~Anita~

If there is an area in your life you are ready to transform and you want to get out of the dark and into the light with it, click here to apply to work together. I would love to help you speed up the process to where you want to go and make life easier for you. 

With a kind heart,

Denise Barry
Master Empowerment Coach

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